Monday, December 19, 2005

i'm lovin' it...

as the day wears on i'm getting increasingly sore. yesterday we went snowboarding for the first time this season. the rustiness caused by a year hiatus has manifested itself in all my muscles, even some unusual ones that i didn't know i had and sure don't remember using. when mel was returning to england she donated her snowboard to me and i promised i'd put it to good use [thanks melly!]. so i've finally got it! the standing up, the back and forth, face down the mountain, back down the mountain. rock. what a blast. it's kinda strange to think how easy it is for us to just take off and hit the slopes. ikenotaira, where lots of us bought a season pass, is about 45 minutes from my place. in america it always seemed like a huge hassle to gather the gear, find the ski resort, rent a hotel, drive there, etc. which explains why i didn't do it very often. well, now i'm absolutely hooked.
a glimpse from the window at school and you know it's snowboarding time...

Monday, December 12, 2005

Relief Help

Way to represent peeps!

Saturday night was great fun...well, what I remember of it anyway.

I'm not sure if it's because we were all a little sloshed or if it's because we are generous and giving people, but either way, the donation drive for victims of South Asia's earthquake was a success.

After we pitched in to round the total off, we'll be giving
31,000 yen
to the cause.
The money will be donated to Mercy Corps to help with the organization's immediate response to health, education and shelter concerns and its work towards Pakistan's future recovery.

As donations should be made in dollars, I'll convert the cash and donate from America while I'm home for the holidays. If anybody wants to contribute more pocket change or paper, please get the moolah to me before 12/20, that's Tuesday of next week.

It's rewarding to think of the improvments this money will make in the lives of people who truly need it. Although we're removed from this tragedy by thousands of miles and set apart from it by a lack of understanding of the consequences of this type of disaster on such poor and unprepared nations, you all made an effort to do what you could to help.
You guys rock!
Thanks!

Thursday, December 08, 2005

here i come...

12 days till i leave for america! who woulda ever thought i'd be so excited to be heading to south carolina?!
my list of places to eat, people to see, spots to visit is swelling out of control. i can already imagine how short my time there will seem. TANOSHIMI!!

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

the infamous enkais



i complained before about the lack of proper house parties and briefly mentioned their alternative, the enkai. these parties are arranged at restaurants, almost every establishment has special rooms equipped to handle groups, some upwards of 100 people. they are expensive fiestas, ranging from 4000 to 8000 yen per person depending on the occasion and the spread. usually several plates are arranged at each place setting before arrival, then the servers continue to bring out other courses on platters and in pots that everyone will share from. these feasts are always accompanied by the fantastic 2 hours of any and everything you’d like to drink. it’s amazing to see so many of the reserved, distinguished teachers devolve into slobbering drunkards slamming shots of nihon shu and peer pressuring each other into guzzling beers, like college students out of the movie animal house. this extreme consumption of alcohol has lead, on more than one occasion, to some bizarre situations. once i saw 2 men, seated at another table belonging to another enkai, drop their pants and underwear to the floor and feign lovemaking. at the end of one of our early parties, a female teacher attempted to stand, stumbled and fell, cracking her head on the corner of one of the low tables off of which you eat [they are akin to coffee tables]. she bounced off the raised platform where the dining tables are, rolled onto the floor and laid there motionless for a good 5 seconds. glad there was no blood. buzz kill and a half. at another party, the maintenance man who’s always really nice to me spent half the evening trying to convince me i should do a home stay program at his house one weekend; wink, wink, nudge. i found it funny and wasn’t offended in the least [there isn’t nearly enough double entendre borderline sexual harassment in this country. you know what i mean…] nevertheless, for weeks after he was mortified and barely spoke to me. that is so often the case; you feel like you have a breakthrough with a fellow teacher during one of these get togethers, you spend hours talking, they realize you can actually communicate your ideas in japanese, they confide in you, then the next day at school it’s as if nothing happened, as if there had been no communing of the minds. it’s part of the phenomenon of nomunication, a hybrid of the words ‘nomu,’ meaning to drink in japanese, and ‘communication.’ another interesting side bar… at my base school the teacher’s labor union has a very strong presence, more so than any other high school in the prefecture i’ve been told. this often puts the administration and many of the teachers at odds, resulting in much collective bargaining, many meetings and often remarkable displays of disregard for school rules as dictated by the government. for instance, at any school event where the national anthem is played, teachers who are members of the union refuse to stand or sing. the words to the anthem allude to the ultimate power of the emperor, and the union, which wishes to play a strong role in determining the laws that will govern the education system, doesn’t subscribe to this idea. in another example, the principal and vice principals are never invited to these parties because this would be viewed as sleeping with the enemy. the first exception to this unfortunate standard occurred recently when we went to a party after culture day in naoetsu, the neighboring city. word spread like wildfire that the big dogs had been invited so rsvps for the shindig were few. about 16 of us gathered for a fabulous dinner [pics in a minute] and i spent much of the evening chatting away with the principal and v.p. who i never get to interact with in this setting. the teacher who organized this party is in the teacher’s union and i heard that subsequently he was demoted in the hierarchy and forced to attend several meetings, that no one else wanted to go to, on behalf of this chapter.

at the restaurant...
the pots shaped like bundt pans held a flavored broth in which we swished thin slices of ika, squid, for a few seconds. they curled into warm, soft, delicious ribbons. then there were crab legs, a bit charred, straight from the grill. also down the table, a plate of lobster; some grilled, some tempura-style.


kodama sensei chowing on some fresh fish presented in a fune, or boat. i'm really coming to appreciate the pairing of raw seafood and cold beer.


ishiyama sensei, me and maruyama sensei. she's an english teacher and i'm not sure about him, although his desk is caddy-corner from mine so we often share morning chats and he attempts niceties in english everyday.


my first opportunity to try the delicacy fugu, aka the scary, poisonous blowfish, and i lived to write about it. it was presented beautifully on a round platter, hundreds of paper thin slices, slightly overlapping, arranged in concentric circles. i watched others use one chopstick as a shovel of sorts, running it under 5 or 6 pieces, and then clamping down on the pile with the other wooden stick. a quick dunk of soy, into the mouth, then watch the look of satisfaction settle on their faces. although i was anxious to try the notorious fish, i couldn't help but remember a news article i'd read the day before about a man in kyoto who had died after indulging in the expensive cuisine. i did as i had seen and, not surprisingly, found the fugu to be really good; the slices of sturdy meat had a mild, clean flavor.


although the fugu was tasty, i favored the fresh tuna they served next. they brought a large section of maguro to the table still intact enough to be unappetizing to some perhaps. outwards from the thick backbone rib-like bones ran in parallel lines. this slab served as a plate for chunks of so-fresh sashimi as thick as a deck of cards. the pieces were like velvet on your tongue, rich flavor, substantial but soft enough to melt.


the slab was also accompanied by seashells, which i thought were decoration until the technique was explained to me. the shells were used as spoons to carve the sweet meat from around the bones. we traced the lines of the fish with our natural scoops until we were nearly down to the skin.

bunka sai = culture day

culture day is a national holiday recognized in the beginning of november when schools organize carnivals of sorts. it's a chance for students to perform, display art, and showcase their talents. this year minamishiro’s festival was on saturday 11/5. i was on hand to help organize the English club’s room and, of course, to frolic and joke with the students.

minami is one of my liveliest girls although her English is practically non-existant.


girls from the basic oral communication class that i teach with kodama sensei. girl to my left talks incessantly but has ok english, girl to my right is pretty good at english and actually studies and the girl on my far right is just not so smart but she’s really cute in her ditzy-ness.


noriyuki, who i’ve been working on forever. from smiles, to nudges, to simple hellos, to now, the difference is amazing. he’s found some self-confidence and is able to hold a conversation with me; he patiently tries to piece together his thoughts in english although he often resorts to interjecting japanese vocabulary. he’s still really shy in class and has this child-like quality about him that makes you smile. interestingly, although he looks really young, his hands are quite large and weathered, appearing to belong to a hulky man twice his age.


some of my favorite boys together in one pic…be still my heart.

front row far left is francesc, but we just call him frank. he’s spanish and moved here with his parents, who are missionaries [i try not to hold that against the kid], and his 8 brothers and sisters. they’re catholic if you couldn’t guess by the lack of birth control methods. i’m jealous of his linguistic ability; of course he speaks spanish, his japanese is perfect and his english is such that he and i have normal conversations at such a natural speed and some of the other English teachers can’t understand.
to his left is the school playboy who has now settled down with ayumi, one of my fave girls. they recently began wearing matching rings and explained to me it was their 6-month anniversary. he’s a really funny and good hearted kid.
to his left is daichi. behind daichi is his younger brother hajime and to daichi's left is his youngest brother whose name i don’t know cause he’s still in middle school. this is a talented family. their mother is filipina so she’s taught them quite a bit of english, putting them way ahead of their peers. as such, daichi can cover any beatles tune unbelievably well. he also plays guitar and bass. hajime was my first student crush and although he’s gotten older and cuter over the last year, he’s also become much more irreverent. he went to the national finals of the high school badminton tournament and he’s the band's drummer. their little brother, who has the longest, most rocking rat tail you’ve ever seen, plays bass in the band. i’ve seen them play around town several times and am anxious for them to become old enough to actually play clubs and bars. in a funny twist, i met a really cool man while out one night. he spoke to me in decent english as we discussed all sorts of things. he inquired about my job, eventually asking at which school i work. his eyes lit up…“oh i’ve heard about you. do you know the furihata boys?” so i had a good laugh with their dad that night and we always hit it off when we run into each other, be it at a bar or a parent-teacher meeting.
front row far right is one of the cute punk boys that smoke in the handicap bathrooms but really aren’t all bad.
back row far left is my new crush tatsuya. he’s really into home economics and wants to study food design after graduation. [what is it with me and effeminate men?] unfortunately he’s got all the necessary english credits so he’s no longer in need of my services...in class i mean. did i mention he’s also student body president? how cute…
back row far right is the night school student body pres. i don’t know his name, but he’s super respectful and funny. i teach his little brother in night school who is not nearly as well-mannered. all these guys played in bands that performed that day.

at the culture day festival there was a traditional tea ceremony. i love these 2 kids… neither actually goes to my school, they’re just always hanging around. the older one on the left graduated from minamishiro a couple years ago, his younger bro on the right is a student at another high school. at the english club’s ‘traditions around the world’ exhibit they were so interested in my papua new guinea regalia that i let them have a couple of the handmade necklaces. the amazement and happiness on their faces was quite a reward.


carrie and i attempted to catch goldfish in paper nets. apparently this is my calling in life as my thin paper scoop refused to break and i managed to nab about 10 fish before passing the net to a student who promptly destroyed it. knowing how good i am with pets, you can imagine that i was overjoyed [sarcasm] at winning all these goldfish. i promptly traded them for some popcorn.


tsubasa, hiromu and shinsuke from my first year oral communication class. they are inseparable and the four of us often spend time between classes chatting about their photographs, a hobby they enjoy together.


shu, nobu and i. shu is a big, rough boy who landed himself at minamishiro [the school for troubled kids] after punching a teacher at his last high school. we get along well both slap boxing and chatting. nobu is so laid back and mild mannered. for a while he was wary of talking to me very often because his friends constantly made fun of him for having a crush on me. luckily that joke blew over.

Monday, December 05, 2005

tis the season to give...

we're throwing a dance party on saturday night at nova, a local club, with a portion of the proceeds going towards relief efforts in South Asia which was devastated by an earthquake in October. i was working on a flyer and thought i'd include it here in case anyone would like to send a christmas present to someone who is truly in need instead of blowing all your cash at wal-mart or the hyaku-en store buying plastic consumer junk. cheers!

South Asia Needs Help

7.6
the magnitude of an earthquake that struck Northern Pakistan at 8:55 AM on October 8
*according to the government of Pakistan
The quake caused horrific human damages across the region, also affecting Afghanistan, India and the disputed area of Kashmir.




79,454
the number of people confirmed dead as a result of this natural disaster
*according to BBC News


3,300,000
the number of people left homeless
*according to UNICEF
As winter weather sets in, these people are living in makeshift tent villages. However many are housed in pup tents, wedge-shaped structures made of canvas and rope that are meant for 2 people, but now shelter entire families. They provide little protection from the harsh weather which will only worsen as the months progress.


500,000
the number of people in remote areas who have yet to receive any aid
*according to the UN’s World Food Program


5,200,000,000
the number of U.S. dollars needed for relief and reconstruction in affected areas
*according to the Asian Development Bank and the World Bank


Every yen, dollar, rupee, baht, pound, euro, peso, loonie, franc, dinar will help.

By donating to Mercy Corps we’ll enable them to provide emergency relief services and implement sustainable development projects that will provide social and economic stability.
-Mercy Corps is employing over 1,100 Pakistanis to build winter shelter through their cash-for-work program.

-Mercy Corps runs six tented medical facilities that have treated more than 15,000 people.

-Mercy Corps is working in 19 villages to establish drinkable water systems and solutions for sanitation and waste disposal problems.


WWW.MERCYCORPS.ORG

Do what you can to help!

Thursday, December 01, 2005

patty and tiffany do japan: part three

so did you guys almost forget we were in the middle of the tiffany and patty show? when we left off, patty and tiffany were headed southeast to wakayama prefecture...
from the train...


destination: the sacred mountain koya san, a gorgeous peak that’s home to the oldest and largest cemetery in the country. the shingon buddhist sect was founded there by a man named kukai, who studied tantric buddhism in china before returning to create kongobuji temple on koya mountain. now there are 117 temples, 2 monasteries and the huge cemetary packed onto the mountain top. patty and i stayed over at rengejoin temple, one of the few that allows foreigners.

it’s an austere but comfortable place filled with the routine that is the life of buddhist monks. many of them were not interested in us, displaying little emotion and not entertaining many of my questions even though they were posited in japanese. one of the middle aged monks was an exception and he guided us through our time there, being sure to inform us about the meditation sessions, morning services and lay of the beautiful local landscape.

he was a rather distinguished and handsome fellow who inspired many blasphemous conversations while there.
although i’ve had some meditation training in yoga class that i quite enjoyed, i have a hard time imagining myself in the lifestyle of a monk. while the sessions were soothing, spending half the day concentrating on clearing your mind would make me go mad. it’s amazing how difficult it is to slow down your thought processes to a point where you can actually clear your head and keep it in that space for any length of time. all the gatherings were held in a hall beyond the zen garden.

it was intense stimuli for the senses; ornately decorated with red tassels and runners, tapestries and golden lanterns and dishes of offerings, smelling musty and slightly spicy from the constant smoldering incense, so damn cold that relaxing your muscles took effort.
we had made our way to koyasan via cable car; a scenic, steep ride. we checked in and i made us some hot tea while we relished the view from our room for a bit.

we wandered for a while, heading back in time for dinner, a healthy and delicious meal which contained no fish, meat, garlic or onions [the latter two being viewed as seasonings, therefore superfluous. there is also some issue of their odor which the monks find offensive.]

then we headed to the cemetery to plod amongst the tombstones in the moonlight.

i couldn’t believe the expansive spread of ancient and modern graves stashed in haphazard rows.

we donned our sexy yukatas...

and settled into our futons rather early so we'd be sure to rouse for the 6 am service.

it was a fascinating session of chanting mantras recorded in books that looked as ancient as the religion itself. the monks were all seated around an altar jutting out from the back wall which consumed about 1/2 of the room. they each played a role in the event which was so well rehearsed, from years of strict routine rather than any desire to impress tourists. in between gonging metal urns and clapping tiny cymbals, our monk friend scooted towards us, urging us to approach the front bench of the altar to give an offering. i had participated in this buddhist tradition once before and was able to perform the ritual without any huge snaffus. it involves bowing deeply to the altar, pinching incense powder from a pile and offering it towards the altar then making a motion like your kissing or smelling what's between your fingers [it's hard to tell which when you learned strictly by watching and copying] before dropping it onto a smoldering mound. repeat this twice, then clap your hands two times leaving them in the prayer position, bow your head and take a moment in which i imaginge you are supposed to feel some sort of connection with the force you are honoring. then it was on to breakfast...

another fabulous meal. while dining, an old woman hobbled into the tatami and gingerly lowered herself onto the floor, resting in the traditional position with legs folded in half inderneath her. turns out she is the mother of this temple. her husband had lead the monks there until his death and now their eldest son is the one we had seen guiding everyone through the services. the 80-something-year-old shared her story with us and then patiently answered all of our questions in fluent english; displaying a calm demeanor that's undoubtedly a product of decades of living in such an environment. patty and i then ventured back out to the surrounding temples and vast cemetary.

all of the mountain's residents, monks and laymen alike, spend much of their days tending to the gravesites.

on the way to the tomb where kukai [the shingon sect's founder] is enshrined, we passed this towering collection of decorated posts.

i asked several passersby about its significance [considering the language issue, i figure the more people i ask, the more likely i am to actually understand what they are trying to convey]. turns out it's a shrine for hitori sammas, people who've died and have no existing family to come visit and pay their respects. they are enshrined here together so that during obon, the most important japanese holiday honoring family who have passed on, visitors to koya san can celebrate their spirits. what a nice gesture.
the cemetary is a beautiful maze of more than 200,000 graves, although the exact number is disputed.

among the interred are famous figures and average japanese citizens who were lucky enough to inherit or wealthy enough to purchase a plot. there is something about the proximity of these graves to that of kukai which makes them prime real estate. there are also corporate plots, all relatively new areas where life-long employees of the companies can expect to rest eternally. they use the promise of this resting place as a recruitment tool.
although the cemetary has a distinctly ancient air about it, like so many other places in japan, the marriage of old and new, historic and modern can be glimpsed in many a tangible example.

like these two family graves, one housing ancestral remains and the other a relatively new resting place. like many a japanese tradition, time has weathered the surface and distorted the appearance of the structure, but the foundation remains strong and the citizens here continue to subscribe to the design and shape of the old ideas, while packaging them in way that ensures their acceptance in modern society.
on our way to the hall of lanterns we passed this row of bronze statues being doused and honored by the throngs.

from what i gathered, it's a way to ensure your deceased loved ones are at peace [as i'm not religious, i'm sure i'm getting all my terminology screwed up and using words that have never crossed buddhist lips. i'd prefer you don't quote me although i'm confident that the basic idea is correct.] patty and i took some time to reminisce about mom and grandaddy clyde and josh before soaking the statues oursleves.


we made our way back to the temple, gathered our things and bused it to the cable car station. as we headed away from the mountain, i felt as if i was emerging from the enchanted forest. indeed there were hundred year old cedars that lent a magical air to the place, but there was also a distinct feel of energy about the area, soothing and calm, impacted but undeterred by time. in a peaceful way, this energy assured me that the lingering marvel of this place would endure for centuries to come.